Monthly Archives: January 2018

Live with intention

Living with Intention: 5 easy steps to get started

Living with Intention: 5 easy steps to get started.

Does the term ” live with intention” sound familiar?  It seems to be the buzz these days. But what does it really mean?  Well if you ask Mary Anne Radmacher, author of “Live with Intention” it can be best explained in a simple poem.

LIVE WITH INTENTION. WALK TO THE EDGE.
LISTEN HARD, PRACTICE WELLNESS. PLAY WITH ABANDON.
LAUGH. CHOOSE WITH NO REGRET. APPRECIATE YOUR FRIENDS.
CONTINUE TO LEARN. DO WHAT YOU LOVE. LIVE AS IF THIS IS ALL THERE IS.

Now let’s break it down to 5 steps to jump start our practice of intention:

  1. Identify your perfect day. Who are you with?  Where are you and what are you doing? This practice helps us envision our life as we would most want to see it. Many have benefited from creating a vision board.  It’s a fun exercise of identifying pictures from magazines that are meaningful to you and creating a collage. The finished product should be displayed somewhere in your home that you will look at it often.
  2. No more compare and despair! Many of us have the “social media addiction.” And experts say it’s a sure-fire way to get caught up in comparing ourselves to others. We see their smiling faces on an island somewhere in paradise and immediately think they are happier and richer than us. Comparing ourselves to others almost always leaves us feeling less than.
  3. Face your Fears. The greatest thing that holds us back in all facets of our life is fear. Anxiety levels, especially in women, are said to be at their highest these days. Staying present and dealing with one issue at a time is a good way to overcome our fears. Give yourself permission to not think about things that are in the past or future. Focus only on the here and now.
  4. Stop Overthinking. Women are the greatest offenders of this! And it is easily explained. Men’s brains have several boxes, most men only open one box at a time, therefore able to focus more on what’s happening in the present. Women have boxes too but the difference is we usually have them all open at the same time causing overthinking! Again, the answer is being mindful, staying in the moment.
  5. Nurture your inner child. We all carry with us our experiences as a child. Many were neglected or abused. Even if you had a “normal” upbringing, there are always lingering effects of our childhood that can haunt us today. Recognize your inner child, get reacquainted with her and be the advocate she needed all those years ago. Soothing her will ultimately help your grown-up self-heal.

As it is with learning a new language or picking up a new hobby or sport, it requires a lot of practice and these steps require your daily attention.

Working on these steps will help you get started as you journey along the happy road of living with intention.

Cheers to living with intention!

Mindfulness

Mindfulness: A Practice to calm your thoughts

Mindfulness: A Practice to calm your thoughts

The practice of mindfulness has been around for centuries and yet many are discovering its incredible benefits today.  In a nutshell, mindfulness is staying in the present moment and it requires practice.

Although some find it difficult at first, the concept is quite simple, keeping your mind only on what’s in front of you.  A friend described it like this: “what are you thinking about when you take your morning shower?” she asked. My answer was “well a million things, what emails need to go out first thing, who’s going to pick up the dry cleaning later today, did I call that person back etc.” She then told me that I should actually be thinking only of what I am doing in that present moment. For example, if I’m washing my hair I should be thinking about washing my hair!  What a concept I thought!

Being mindful simply requires that you keep your mind from wandering. Some call it “the monkey mind” or “the hamster wheel” when we allow our thoughts to leave the present moment and go to the future or the past.  Mindfulness has been proven to help those with PTSD syndrome and anxiety. There a number of ways to practice mindfulness such as being aware of your breathing, mindfulness exercising and eating practices. One mindfulness practitioner put it like this “stay where your feet are!” How many times have we found ourselves having to ask someone to repeat what they said to us? That’s usually because we are not being mindful of the person speaking. We are thinking about something else. Being mindful definitely takes practice. One friend said, “I now give myself permission not to think about anything unless it is a task or a thought that is in my present moment.” “Once I got the hang of it, the freedom is amazing!” she said.

At Wise Women Fitness, we use the practice of mindfulness while getting fit.  Exercise is a great way to practice mindfulness, helping our clients to stay in the moment and feel more at peace! Interested in learning more about our services?  Give us a call today for your free evaluation!